Monday, August 30, 2010


I got a friend, good friend that is a Malay but that doesn't make any different between us.

He can speak chinese very well, you might misjudged him if as a Chinese if u dint look at him face to face.

Ya, he know chinese because he is from Chinese primary school.

Now, we hangout together even though he left us for a few year, without racism.

I hate people around me critic on other races people. When you said "Babi Melayu", you are discriminating them and yet they are not deserving it. It is so unfair to them to be judged because of other people's fault.

Our harmony is formed because of respect between each other and this respectfulness formed 1Malaysia. Love your country by respecting people around you.

I am surprised when I read this article that written our Tunku Abdul Rahman's Great granddaughter, Lisa. Share with u all^.^

Sharyn Lisa Shufiyan, 24, Conservationist

Both my parents are Malay. My mum's heritage includes Chinese, Thai and Arab, while my dad is Minangkabau. Due to my skin colour, I am often mistaken for a Chinese.

I'm happy that I don't have the typical Malay look but I do get annoyed when people call me Ah Moi or ask me straight up "Are you Chinese or Malay"

Like, why does it matter? Before I used to answer "Malay" but now I'm trying to consciously answer Malaysian instead.

There's this incident from primary school that I remember till today. Someone told me that I will be called last during Judgement Day because I don't have a Muslim name. Of course, I was scared then but now that I'm older, I realise that a name is just a name. It doesn't define you as a good or bad person and there is definitely no such thing as a Muslim name. You can be named Rashid or Ali and still be a Christian.

I've heard of the 1Malaysia concept, but I think we don't need to be told to be united. We've come such a long way that it should already be embedded in our hearts and minds that we are united. Unfortunately, you can still see racial discrimination and polarisation. There is still this ethno-centric view that the Malays are the dominant group and their rights must be protected, and non Malays are forever the outsiders.

For the concept to succeed, I think the government should stop with the race politics. It's tiring, really. We grew up with application forms asking us to tick our race. We should stop painting a negative image of the other races, stop thinking about 'us' and 'them' and focus on 'we', 'our' and 'Malaysians'.

No one should be made uncomfortable in their own home. A dear Chinese friend of mine said to me once, "I don't feel patriotic because I am not made to feel like Malaysia is my home, and I don't feel an affinity to China because I have never lived there.

I know some baby Nyonya friends who can trace their lineage back hundreds of years. I'm a fourth generation Malaysian. If I am Bumiputra, why can't they be, too? Clearly I have issues with the term.

I think the main reason why we still can't achieve total unity is because of this 'Malay rights' concept. I'd rather 'Malay rights' be replaced by human rights. So unless we get rid of this Bumiputra status, or reform our views and policies on rights, we will never achieve unity.

For my merdeka wish, I'd like for Malaysians to have more voice, to be respected and heard. I wish that the government would uphold the true essence of parliamentary democracy. I wish for the people to no longer fear and discriminate against each other, to see that we are one and the same.

I wish that Malaysia would truly live up to the tourism spin of Malaysia truly Asia. Malaysians to lead - whatever their ethnic background. Only ONE NATIONALITY MALAYSIAN. No Malays, No Chinese, No Indians - ONLY MALAYSIANS. Choose whatever religion one is comfortable with.

*Read this from ^.^

Saturday, August 28, 2010





不久,男孩发现,控制自己的脾气 比敲钉子还容易。终于有一天,男孩一次脾气也没有发。


父亲很高兴然后告诉儿子:“此后,如果你一天不发脾 气,就到围墙那里拔出一棵钉子。”



Reference:。 She truly has good writing skill.



近年来开始明白了自己,看得出几个弱点/坏习惯。其中一个因该就是讲错话吧!在不该出声的情况说了令人反感的话。 都怪自己把嘴管不好,在自己的墙壁上钉上了铁钉。事后都无法弥补了。

Friday, August 27, 2010



不能讲一口流利的广东话。在你们高谈阔论的同时,我只能在旁聆听, 顶多讲一句半句而已。 半句不标准的广东插出来把整个conversation弄得很奇怪, 所以有时会保持沉默就算了。


我不懂得怎样跟人家搭讪。 我很想认识更多的人,有更多的朋友可我应该怎么做?


How I wish I could become 1 of them.

Sunday, August 22, 2010


很开心的,我答应自己的事果然做到了。 我已为我们这情段感情做了少少的事,在你们的回忆里占了那么的一点的位子。

分开是必然的,明天,应该说等下我们就各走东西了。“ 5 虎 ” 不再一起了~

我们曾不停的讨论到哪旅行,新加波、台湾、岛、langkawi、port dickson、等等但知道如果没人踏出这一步,这些都将会是空谈。 实际的行动最重要。所以当时的我答应了自己不论有多懒都好都得为大家organize一个trip。 证明自己不是只会讲不会做的人(证明给自己看而已,没有别的意识)


去马六甲的小小障碍都克服了,第一天玩得特别开心(至少我很开心)大家都烧伤了。哪知道自己多手不小心delete了那百多张照片,真的是。。。。。 ah~~!!!!自己一手造成了这小小的遗憾。好惭愧~!整个trip spoiled~


Friday, August 13, 2010



哎呀!其实今天不是要讲人家的blog的。 回来回来


现在看到他们得到奖学金,拿JPA/进大学,出国看比较圆的月亮,真叫人羡慕。我就让自己有个梦想,告诉自己还来得及的!成绩不好不要紧,赚钱!存够几十千钱 degree year3 的时候到UK升学一年,吹吹外国风,父母还可以骄傲的跟别人所:“我儿子在英国读书的”。 多威风~!

可原来这梦想正的只是一场梦。当我告诉micky这梦想时,他一句“你不可能的啦” 让我吃了一惊。但朋友,你说对了!真的是不可能~ 那里一年的tuition fee 就等于这里的四/五年degree,生活费呢?

可能你们会说赚钱啦? 在那半工半读可我自己知自己事,办不到~!

所以说朋友,SPM和STPM 加油啊!这是你们人身的转折点,错过了就没有了~